How can I explain the mystery of suffering to a non-Christian?

By November 15, 2014 4 Comments

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A non-Christian friend of mine is having a difficult time understanding the mystery of suffering and death and why a loving, all-powerful God allows it. She is not open to a Christian explanation of the matter. Is there a non-Christian explanation I can use?


One possibility is to draw upon the Fatherhood of God. Good human parents, you might point out, do not rescue their children from every difficulty they encounter or from every bump and bruise they may suffer—even when it is within their power to prevent it; instead, they sometimes allow their children to experience the natural consequences of their choices. Likewise, God is no less all-loving and all-powerful if he allows us to experience the natural consequences of our choices. Obviously, this analogy doesn’t account for the innocent suffering of those who have committed no wrongdoing. That is where Christian revelation enters with its understanding of vicarious responsibility for sin, vicarious atonement for sin, and the redemptive value of innocent suffering offered up in union with Christ’s sacrifice on Calvary. Nevertheless, you could start by appealing to common human experience to see if that opens the door to a discussion of the Christian understanding of suffering and death. One of the most powerful secular explorations of suffering and death in recent years has been J. K. Rowling’s Harry Potter series. Some argue that the series draws on Christian imagery and Christian themes, but it does not explicitly mention Christ or Christianity, and it has been popular with audiences uninterested in Christian literature. If your friend is not interested in an explicitly Catholic explanation of suffering and death, perhaps she will be interested in a secular story that incorporates those themes.


  • Roger L'Arrivee says:

    If God interfered every time something bad was going to happen we would be nothing more than puppets on a string and I wouldn’t want that. I truly believe God helps us through all of our suffering as long as you ask him and trust in him

  • Can you explain more about the Harry Potter thing? I’ve never heard that mentioned

  • Kevin Hartranft says:

    if God is omniscient, omnipresent, and omnipotent the suffering and evil exist because God allows it — it is that simple – if you can create all that is then you can end those aspects of it – like say satan — that you would have us fight so very hard to avoid

  • jon says:

    You need to work on your understanding of the word “suffering”. To “suffer” means “to allow or permit”.

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