How is a husband to initiate lovemaking with his wife while remaining selfless?




Full Question

How is a husband to initiate lovemaking with his wife while remaining selfless?

Answer

There is no line in the sand; it’s more a matter of emphasis. Sexuality is not sinful, it is part of marital love.

The most pertinent questions to ask are:

Are someone’s sexual thoughts the result of an expression of love for one’s spouse? Or do the thoughts merely reduce one’s spouse to an object of pleasure?


By Fr. Charles Grondin





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2 comments

  1. Patrick Gannon Reply

    Why would this question come up? The woman is not allowed to deny her husband sex, right? I mean, even today in 2017, from the perspective of the Church, women are still mostly a man’s property. She is to be subservient. It’s a sin if she doesn’t give him sex, right?
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    Perhaps a better question is: Is “How is a priest to initiate lovemaking with his altar boy, while remaining selfless?”
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    The Church’s maniacal obsession with sex, underlies a deep unnatural, disordered mental illness. The good news is that these priests do not contribute to the gene pool, and for that we thank them.

    1. Liza Reply

      Are you even Catholic? By your reply, I’m going to assume, “no.” According to Church teachings, women aren’t subservient to men. I’m not going to get into a full explanation because I’m not going to waste my time with someone who really doesn’t care to know. Secondly, the Church doesn’t have a maniacal obsession with sex. What is the real problem is the infiltration of homosexuals into the priesthood.

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