1. The reasons p********** is not wrong.

P********** isn’t wrong because sex is bad or the body shameful. It’s wrong because sex is good and the body magnificent! As Christians we must never forget whose idea sex was in the first place. It was not thought up by Hugh Hefner or by Cosmopolitan magazine but by God! In fact, God’s very first commandment to humanity in the Bible is to “be fruitful and multiply” (Gen 1:28)! And as philosopher Dr. Peter Kreeft noted, “I do not think he meant for us to grow oranges and invent calculators.”

P********** is wrong because it removes sexual intimacy from its natural context, turning it into a commodity to be bought and sold. It has been rightly said that the problem with p*** is not that it shows too much but that it shows too little—too little of the human person.
P********** reduces the mystery and beauty of a man or woman to a collection of body parts to be used rather than recognizing them as persons to be loved. It reduces the great mystery and sanctity of human sexuality to a trivial activity that need not be of any real importance.

2. P********** is not just a man’s issue.

While it is certainly true that men have cornered the market on visual p**********, it’s not true that women don’t also struggle. One survey revealed that 34 percent of female subscribers of Today’s Christian Woman online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing Internet p***.
Because p********** is predominantly consumed by men, many women who struggle with p********** feel an even greater sense of shame and isolation. One young woman I know put it this way:

For over seven years, I was addicted to hardcore p**********, masturbation, and lust—and I am a woman. Often we hear that women may struggle with fantasy and romance novels, but p***—p*** is a guy thing. One of the most shaming statements I ever heard was, “Women just don’t have this problem.” I started to lose hope after I heard that. How do you argue with the ‘fact’ that only men struggle with p***? It is sad, because this mindset is causing so much damage to women. It causes many women to question their sexuality and wonder if they are homosexual because they are involved in a sin “only men” get caught up in. It isolates them, silences them, keeps them trapped in this sin and drives them further away from freedom and into the darkness.

If you or a woman you know struggles with p**********, be assured that you are not alone. Help is available, and healing is possible. You might begin by visiting the website Beggar’s Daughter.

3. P*** stars don’t enjoy what they do.

When I inquired of a friend of mine, a former p*** star, if this was the case, she said, “Well, there are several reasons why girls get into the p*** industry, but a hardcore sex drive isn’t one of them. I know, because that’s what I used to tell people in interviews.” Another former p*** star put it this way:

Sex-packed p*** films featuring freshly dyed blondes whose evocative eyes say ‘I want you’ is quite possibly one of the greatest deceptions of all time. Trust me, I know. I did it all the time, and I did it for the lust of power and the love of money. I never liked sex. I never wanted sex, and in fact I was more apt to spend time with Jack Daniels than some of the studs I was paid to fake it with. That’s right—none of us freshly dyed blondes like doing p***. In fact, we hate it. We hate being touched by strangers who care nothing about us. . . . Some women hate it so much you can hear them vomiting in the bathroom between scenes. Others can be found outside smoking an endless chain of Marlboro Lights. . . . But the p*** industry wants YOU to think we p*** actresses love sex. They want you to think we enjoy being degraded by all kinds of repulsive acts.

P********** “immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world” (CCC 2354). One such illusion is that the women in the p*** industry enjoy making p**********. While this may be a convenient illusion for those seeking to justify their p********** use, the reality behind the fantasy is another story entirely.

For an eye-opening and detailed insight into the world of p**********, get my two-CD set, The Ugly Truth. On the first CD I interview a former p*** star, on the second a former Playboy producer. I truly believe that anyone who listens to this with an open mind will never be able to truly justify p********** again.

By Matt Fradd


  • Williams valentino says:

    Well actually that’s (no,3)because most women or ladies do it for money not because they liked it,but in all,sensitisation and creation of jobs for the ever teeming youths of the contemporary society should also be considered,thanks and remain blessed,,,,,,,

  • Williams valentino says:

    Well actually that’s true for,(no,3)because most women or ladies do it often times for money not because they liked it,but in all,sensitisation and creation of jobs for the ever teeming youths of the contemporary society should also be considered,thanks and remain blessed,,,,,,,

  • markidoski jr hernandez says:

    its bad cos its nt the will of God

  • philip kanyora says:

    in the first place when watching p*** is the spirit of God present God created one man for one woman

  • Arturo says:

    Is masturbation a sin?

  • Sarah Willson says:

    Yes, masturbation is a sin. In most cases it is a mortal sin. It is sex without love and commitment. Sex is for married couples.

  • Alex says:

    i think only prayers can help one not fall immoral sins ,what do u say about it?

  • H says:

    Your sins and mine were paid for. Worry doesn’t increase your days.

  • Visuca says:

    Thanks to the writer of the article for writing it ‘in Truh and sincerity’, it seems to me. I say ‘it seems to me’ because I have not read it all: the very word ‘p**********’ REVOLTS me, let alone its contents. – No, I am not ‘a model of sanctity’ but I do LOVE TRUTH and p********** is A LIE: a big, fat, desfiguratin LIE that gives something as grand, as beautiful as SEX a bad name. If you could have a type diamond, would you settle for a ‘cubic zirconia’ ?…

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