Which are the days of abstinence in Lent?

By November 17, 2014 One Comment

Full Question

Can you tell me what Catholic traditions are concerning Lent? My father goes without meat on Friday, my mother on Wednesday and Friday. Which one is right?


They both are. The Church nowadays requires abstinence from meat only on Fridays of Lent, so your father is obeying the current discipline. In the early centuries, Christians fasted and abstained on Wednesdays and Fridays—not only in Lent, but all year long. So your mother is honoring this ancient tradition.
The spirit of Lent is to do something more, something extra, to grow closer to Christ. The Church sets some guidelines as a minimum, but we are free to do more. Traditionally, the penances of Lent are fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. Each person, together with his confessor, decides on what practices will best prepare him for Easter.

One Comment

  • Joy Bagunu says:

    In order to take communion i have to confess first but i’m not allowed to confess because i got married by civil only not in Church. I can’t get married in Church because my husband is divorced only and he’s previous marriage was not annuled. I didn’t know my practice as a Catholic will be sacrificed due to this. I am deeply hurt by this rule and am suffering emotionally because I feel like an outcast during each communion because I can only go up to get Blessed and cannot take the body of Christ.

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