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How to tell if it’s God’s voice, an illusion, or just ego?

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How to tell if it’s God’s voice, an illusion, or just ego?

Disposition

The disposition of the person receiving the apparition is what’s to be considered first. If they are rigid, closed, and very hostile to other interpretations, then maybe they’re not hearing from God after all. Anyone who is mentally healthy, hears a voice or sees a vision, and is tuned to God will know there are many explanations of the phenomenon. Most times, when the person has no freedom and is open to the possibility they do not hear what they think, they may be suffering from some mental or emotional problems and not getting any spiritual visitation. Resistance to other explanations, self-defense, and self-faith in such matters is dangerous and a bad sign. Anyone who is healthy and is open to God will consider other possibilities, too, before even slightly thinking of a spiritual explanation. They must go from natural to the supernatural.

Orientation; Enmity

Do you remember the story of St Faustina? The stories of all the Saints who had the gift of visions can help us a lot in this case. However, Christ expressly told Faustina that she must follow the counsel of her spiritual director even when it was different from that of Christ himself. Most of the time, people who claim to see visions tend to become proud and stubborn to the authority of the Church hierarchy.

A Story

There was a young man in my childhood neighborhood, was from my parish and was part of the Catholic Charismatic Renewal. At one point, this man was said to be able to see visions and perform miracles. However, he later began a “ministry” outside of the regular meetings of the Church group mentioned above. It went even further: when the Bishop of the diocese called him to order, gave him directives, he refused and believed rather in his own visions. He later left the Church, started his own quasi-church and many people flocked to him.

Then one day, he just disappeared. At that time, we started hearing many rumors of how he was caught talking to something that looked like a vulture, which was why he ran away. Yeah, I realize many wouldn’t even think this is possible, and I am one of those, but the lesson is those who hear from God accept the Church. Or at least those who hear from God and are on the heavenly path listen to Mother Church. They would not see those who question or test the spirit speaking to them as personal enemies or even God’s enemies. They see them as well-meaning people who want to know the truth. It is very dangerous when such people start thinking they’re God’s definitive voice on earth, and therefore anyone who goes against them goes against God. It reminds me of my saying:

“It is not always about who you think you are; someone once thought he was God, now he is Satan.”

Warning: the devil can disguise as heavenly

There have been stories of many saints who the master of hell visited in the guise of Christ, Mary, and other Saints. However, one of the things that always helped them was, they were able to test these spirits. Whenever a saint is counseled to disobey an order, they’d know for certain it wasn’t God speaking. Whenever the apparition countered any predefined Catholic Doctrine or spoke ill of the Pope or the Bishops in communion with him, they knew this was proof of the presence of the Evil One. They always listened to the counsel and advice of their spiritual fathers. They were always open to the fact that it could be safer to doubt than believe in the authenticity of their visions.

Tough advice

St Francis the Sales is known to counsel his proteges to ask God to take away such gifts. They are unnecessary for salvation and can even cause some immature people to fall out of faith by becoming proud. I am one of those who have taught this. There have been times when I heard weird voices, and all I did was ignore them, and they later went away. The reason is, I am one of those who vehemently teach that it might be unhealthier than healthy to encourage such a gift. And I believe too that it might be presumptuous or at least slightly sinful to desire such extraordinary gifts.

I want to lead an everyday life, no confusion, no need for headaches. With an eye on God and the other on his works on earth, there won’t be a need to start stressing my heart about the meanings of voices and visions.

Finally; more thoughts on the matter:

  • Any vision or voice that tells you to go off on your own isn’t from God. God always gathers; he never scatters.
  • Any vision or voice that encourages enmity and quarrel isn’t from God. Therefore, God doesn’t tell people the evil others are doing so they’d hate them. God isn’t a spy.
  • God would never encourage you to hate Mary or the Saints.
  • God would never encourage anything sinful (Goes without saying).
  • God would never indirectly or directly dissuade you from praying.
  • God would never tell you not to help others.

Anything God tells you must be to love, be a good Catholic, and pray for the Pope and the Church. Anything remotely contrary to these isn’t from God. It would be best if you also had an experienced priest to help guide and counsel you.

How to tell if it’s God’s voice, an illusion, or just ego?

How to tell if it’s God’s voice, an illusion, or just ego?

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The surest way to keep the devil ‘far’ from your life

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The surest way to keep the devil ‘far’ from your life

Where I come from, many people believe demons can pretty much walk in and out of your life at will. As though God doesn’t exist or allows the powers of hell to oppress us the way they like without any consent from us. And that’s where I disagree.

PLAYING WITH HELL

Have you ever heard of Ouija boards? That form of divination which makes a game out of seeking information from supernatural sources. The truth is, those ‘sources’ are spirits, and they do respond, but the only spirits that respond to such requests are the evil ones.

People wrongly believe that these boards are harmless; they are even being marketed as toys. Others also show their disbelief in such things, forgetting that disbelieving something doesn’t mean they do not exist. If I do not know or believe the country Mali exists, it doesn’t make the country disappear.

THE TRUTH

These and other means of contacting demons and other spirits are horrible ways to infest our lives with dark forces. Demons always seek ways to enter our lives and destroy them. If you give them a loophole, by contacting them, they not only respond, they enter and aim to stay permanently.

It is sinful and unacceptable to call forth demons or practice any form of divination whatsoever. Even fortune telling is also wrong:

Let no one be found among you who sacrifices their son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord; because of these same detestable practices, the Lord your God will drive out those nations before you. – Deuteronomy 18:10–12

Behold, I and the children whom the LORD has given me are for signs and wonders in Israel from the LORD of hosts, who dwells on Mount Zion. When they say to you, “Consult the mediums and the spiritists who whisper and mutter,” should not a people consult their God? Should they consult the dead on behalf of the living? – Isaiah 8:18-19

From the experience of Catholic exorcists show how bad these boards are and how devastating their effects could be in our lives. Some have said that over 85 percent of the most stubborn cases of demonic possession and activities started from the use of Ouija boards.

KEEPING AWAY

The surest way to keep the devil far from your life is not to hold anything that belongs to him. If you want to evict some stubborn tenant, you’d have to allow him to take his family and possessions from your building, right? If not, he’ll keep coming back. Throw the devil away, give him his possessions, and he will leave you alone in peace. Be them Ouija boards or other “toys” that encourage communication with strange spirits.

‘Do not turn to mediums or spiritists; do not seek them out to be defiled by them. I am the LORD your God. – Leviticus 19:31

GRACE

Being in the state of grace is also very important. It is about the surest way to know that there is no funny business inside your soul. When we have God sitting at the center of our hearts, we can be sure who we belong to. Whenever we fall out of grace, we must strive to keep our communication with God; ask for pardon, and go to confession as soon as possible. However, this does not mean or even suggest that demons possess people who are not in the state of grace. NO, it means that we need to do everything to steer away from sin and evil. So that we can be sure that we belong to God, which is all that matters; if a spirit must possess us, let it be the Holy Spirit, our friend, and helper, who we can trust to bring us to eternal joys at the end of our sojourn in this scary world.

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Some people work for heaven but are later lost. Why?

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Some people work for heaven but are later lost. Why?

People who think they’ll make it:

“Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me,you workers of lawlessness.’ Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.… – Matthew 7:22-24

So many people don’t get the order right about God’s gifts and the things of heaven. People focus on using the gifts of God even at the expense of their relationship with God who gives the gift. Notice how the Lord focused on those who do this? “Did we not prophesy in your name… cast out demons and perform many miracles“. And yet the Lord will give the heart-rending remark of eternal significance “Depart from me”. These people focused so much on using God’s gifts, paid little attention to the things that matter.

So many people work for heaven but are later lost. Why?

People who will make it:

What the above means isn’t that we cannot use the gifts God gives us, but we must use them within the Church in the proper manner. We must use them with love and humility; we cannot let those gifts take us away from God or let them estrange us from the community.

The Law is love:

Each Christian knows he is a candidate of heaven when he is ablaze with this love. Love has been described with words synonymous with fire. Indeed, in some sense, love has been perceived as having fiery property itself.

The human perception of love varies, some consider it in its purely human model of basic communion and companionship, as a sharing of self, some go further to conceive it only as Eros, the fiery fire of love is identified with the fires of passion.

In Christianity

The meaning of Love is rendered more spiritual since it is viewed as having a divine origin and purpose. We believe that love is first of all directed to God, the maker of all, and then to all things for the sake of God. Whenever that order is changed, that love is no longer true; that love becomes selfish.

The whole of the Christian Message and doctrines are stories of love. The entire Church celebrations are at their core, the celebration of God’s gratuitous love; all the festivities, all the Saints’ days, solemnities, etc are because of this love; this powerful love that transforms all things.

This love gives meaning and dignity to all things according as they are loved by God. Humans are good not because of their personal actions, but because of the Love God has for them, a unilateral decision on the part of God not linked to personal merits. This is the basis of our dignity as human persons; that the Lord loves us as a People, and as individuals, that God has a personal love for each and all.

The command:

“A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so also you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another.” – John 13:34,35

Heaven is on fire !

God is love; God is a consuming fire!

Heaven is communion with God, a transformation of lovers to beloved (God). God himself is a consuming fire, and this means that all of Heaven IS ON FIRE!

If you have the gift of prophecy, of healing, of levitation, of visions and locutions, of bi-location or stigmata. You can still land yourself in hell if you do not abide by God’s love. If you do not look at others through the eyes of God and help them with anything you have. Mustn’t be money, or clothes, just a smile, your time, a word or two might help someone in need.

“When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the angels with Him, He will sit on His glorious throne. All the nations will be gathered before Him, and He will separate the people one from another, as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will place the sheep on His right and the goats on His left.

Then the King will say to those on His right, ‘… inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave Me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave Me something to drink, I was a stranger and you took Me in, I was naked and you clothed Me, I was sick and you looked after Me, I was in prison and you visited Me.’

Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of Mine, you did for Me.

Then He will say to those on His left, ‘Depart from Me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave Me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave Me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not take Me in, I was naked and you did not clothe Me, I was sick and in prison and you did not visit Me.’… ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for Me.

And they will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”

Matthew 25:31-46

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Did you know people will go to heaven or hell with their physical bodies?

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Did you know people will go to heaven or hell with their physical bodies?

I assume you are one of the many people who join in the profession of faith on Sundays, yet I am guessing you probably do not know the real implication of the words:

“We look for the resurrection of the dead”

Many people might think this means that those who die around the time of Christ’s Second Coming will be raised upon his arrival or some other explanation that diverts from the teaching of the Church.

However, this statement means quite literally:

Everyone who has died will physically rise again, just like Christ did. The righteous will rise to glory, while those in hell will re-assume their bodies to resume their eternal torture. Man is neither the soul nor the body, Man is body and soul, so it makes sense that this union be believed as a natural consequence of human nature.

St Paul says:

“But someone will ask, “How are the dead raised? With what kind of body will they come?” How foolish! What you sow does not come to life unless it dies. When you sow, you do not plant the body that will be, but just a seed, perhaps of wheat or of something else. But God gives it a body as he has determined, and to each kind of seed he gives its own body. Not all flesh is the same: People have one kind of flesh, animals have another, birds another and fish another. There are also heavenly bodies and there are earthly bodies; but the splendor of the heavenly bodies is one kind, and the splendor of the earthly bodies is another. The sun has one kind of splendor, the moon another and the stars another; and star differs from star in splendor.

So will it be with the resurrection of the dead. The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable; it is sown in dishonor, it is raised in glory; it is sown in weakness, it is raised in power; it is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body.

If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body. So it is written: “The first man Adam became a living being” ; the last Adam, a life-giving spirit. The spiritual did not come first, but the natural, and after that the spiritual. The first man was of the dust of the earth; the second man is of heaven. As was the earthly man, so are those who are of the earth; and as is the heavenly man, so also are those who are of heaven. And just as we have borne the image of the earthly man, so shall we bear the image of the heavenly man.

 I declare to you, brothers and sisters, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.” 

 “Where, O death, is your victory?

Where, O death, is your sting?” 

The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

1 Corinthians 15

Did you know people will go to heaven or hell with their physical bodies?

Pope Clement I

“Let us consider, beloved, how the Master is continually proving to us that there will be a future resurrection, of which he has made the Lord Jesus Christ the firstling, by raising him from the dead. Let us look, beloved, at the resurrection which is taking place seasonally. Day and night make known the resurrection to us. The night sleeps, the day arises. Consider the plants that grow. How and in what manner does the sowing take place? The sower went forth and cast each of the seeds onto the ground, and they fall to the ground, parched and bare, where they decay. Then from their decay, the greatness of the master’s providence raises them up, and from the one grain more grow and bring forth fruit” (Letter to the Corinthians 24:1–6 [A.D. 80]).

Polycarp of Smyrna

“[W]hoever perverts the sayings of the Lord for his own desires, and says that there is neither resurrection nor judgment, such a one is the firstborn of Satan. Let us, therefore, leave the foolishness and the false-teaching of the crowd and turn back to the word which was delivered to us in the beginning” (Letter to the Philippians 7:1–2 [A.D. 135]).

Aristides

“[Christians] have the commandments of the Lord Jesus Christ himself impressed upon their hearts, and they observe them, awaiting the resurrection of the dead and the life of the world to come” (Apology 15 [A.D. 140]).

Second Clement

“Let none of you say that this flesh is not judged and does not rise again. Just think: In what state were you saved, and in what state did you recover your [spiritual] sight, if not in the flesh? In the same manner, as you were called in the flesh, so you shall come in the flesh. If Christ, the Lord who saved us, though he was originally spirit, became flesh and in this state called us, so also shall we receive our reward in the flesh. Let us, therefore, love one another, so that we may all come into the kingdom of God” (Second Clement 9:1–6 [A.D. 150]).

Justin Martyr

“The prophets have proclaimed his [Christ’s] two comings. One, indeed, which has already taken place, was that of a dishonored and suffering man. The second will take place when, in accord with prophecy, he shall come from the heavens in glory with his angelic host, when he shall raise the bodies of all the men who ever lived. Then he will clothe the worthy in immortality, but the wicked, clothed in eternal sensibility, he will commit to the eternal fire along with the evil demons” (First Apology 52 [A.D. 151]).

“Indeed, God calls even the body to resurrection and promises it everlasting life. When he promises to save the man, he thereby makes his promise to the flesh. What is man but a rational living being composed of soul and body? Is the soul by itself a man? No, it is but the soul of a man. Can the body be called a man? No, it can but be called the body of a man. If, then, neither of these is by itself a man, but that which is composed of the two together is called a man, and if God has called man to life and resurrection, he has called not a part, but the whole, which is the soul and the body” (The Resurrection 8 [A.D. 153]).

Tatian the Syrian

“We believe that there will be a resurrection of bodies after the consummation of all things” (Address to the Greeks 155 [A.D. 170]).

Theophilus of Antioch

“God will raise up your flesh immortal with your soul; and then, having become immortal, you shall see the immortal, if you will believe in him now; and then you will realize that you have spoken against him unjustly. But you do not believe that the dead will be raised. When it happens, then you will believe, whether you want to or not; but unless you believe now, your faith then will be reckoned as unbelief” (To Autolycus 1:7–8 [A.D. 181]).

Irenaeus

“For the Church, although dispersed throughout the whole world even to the ends of the earth, has received from the apostles and from their disciples the faith in . . . the raising up again of all flesh of all humanity, in order that to Jesus Christ our Lord and God and Savior and King, in accord with the approval of the invisible Father, every knee shall bend of those in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue shall confess him, and that he may make just judgment of them all” (Against Heresies 1:10:1–4 [A.D. 189]).

Tertullian

“After the present age is ended he will judge his worshipers. . . . All who have died since the beginning of time will be raised up again and shaped again and remanded to whichever destiny they deserve” (Apology 18:3 [A.D. 197]).

“Therefore, the flesh shall rise again: certainly of every man, certainly the same flesh, and certainly in its entirety. Wherever it is, in the safekeeping with God through that most faithful agent between God and man, Jesus Christ, who shall reconcile both God to man and man to God, [and] the spirit to the flesh and the flesh to the spirit” (The Resurrection of the Dead 63:1 [A.D. 210]).

“In regard to that which is called the resurrection of the dead, it is necessary to defend the proper meaning of the terms ‘of the dead’ and ‘resurrection.’ The word ‘dead’ signifies merely that something has lost the soul, by the faculty of which it formerly lived. The term ‘dead’ then applies to a body. Moreover, if resurrection is of the dead, and ‘dead’ applies only to a body, the resurrection will be of a body. . . . ‘To rise’ may be said of that which never in any way fell, but which was always lying down. But ‘to rise again’ can only be said of that which has fallen; for by ‘rising again’ that which fell is said to ‘re-surrect.’ The syllable ‘re-‘ always implies iteration [happening again]. We say, therefore, that a body falls to the ground in death . . . and that which falls, rises again” (Against Marcion 5:9:3–4 [A.D. 210]).

Minucius Felix

“See, too, how for our consolation all nature suggests the future resurrection. The sun sinks down, but is reborn. The stars go out, but return again. Flowers die, but come to life again. After their decay shrubs put forth leaves again; not unless seeds decay does their strength return. A body in the grave is like the trees in winter: They hide their sap under a deceptive dryness. Why are you in haste for it to revive and return, while yet the winter is raw? We must await even the spring of the body. I am not ignorant of the fact that many, in the consciousness of what they deserve, would rather hope than actually believe that there is nothing for them after death. They would prefer to be annihilated rather than be restored for punishment” (Octavius 34:11–12 [A.D. 226]).

Aphraahat the Persian Sage

“Therefore be instructed by this, you fool, that each and every one of the seeds is clothed in its own body. Never do you sow wheat and reap barley, and never did you plant a vine and have it produce figs. But everything grows in accord with its own nature. So also the body which has been laid in the ground is the same which will rise again” (Treatises 8:3 [A.D. 340]).

Did you know people will go to heaven or hell with their physical bodies?

Cyril of Jerusalem

“This body shall be raised, not remaining weak as it is now, but this same body shall be raised. By putting on incorruption, it shall be altered, as iron blending with fire becomes fire—or rather, in a manner the Lord who raises us knows. However it will be, this body shall be raised, but it shall not remain such as it is. Rather, it shall abide as an eternal body. It shall no longer require for its life such nourishment as now, nor shall it require a ladder for its ascent; for it shall be made a spiritual body, a marvelous thing, such as we have not the ability to describe” (Catechetical Lectures 18:18 [A.D. 350]).

Epiphanius of Salamis

“As for those who profess to be Christians . . . and who confess the resurrection of the dead, of our body and of the body of the Lord . . . but who at the same time say that the same flesh does not rise, but other flesh is given in its place by God, are we not to say that this opinion exceeds all others in impiety” (The Man Well-Anchored 87 [A.D. 374]).

The Athanasian Creed

“[Jesus Christ] sits at the right hand of God the Father Almighty. From there he shall come to judge the living and the dead; at his coming all men have to rise again with their bodies and will render an account of their own deeds; and those who have done good will go into life everlasting, but those who have done evil, into eternal fire [Rom. 2:6–11]. This is the Catholic faith, unless everyone believes this faithfully and firmly, he cannot be saved” (Athanasian Creed [A.D. 400]).

Augustine

“Perish the thought that the omnipotence of the Creator is unable, for the raising of our bodies and for the restoring of them to life, to recall all [their] parts, which were consumed by beasts or by fire, or which disintegrated into dust or ashes, or were melted away into a fluid, or were evaporated away in vapors” (The City of God 22:20:1 [A.D. 419]).

“God, the wonderful and inexpressible Artisan, will, with a wonderful and inexpressible speed, restore our flesh from the whole of the material of which it was constituted, and it will make no difference to its reconstruction whether hairs go back to hairs and nails go back to nails, or whatever of these had perished be changed to flesh and be assigned to other parts of the body, while the providence of the Artisan will take care that nothing unseemly result” (Handbook of Faith, Hope, and Charity 23:89 [A.D. 421]).

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What people regret most at death and why you should care now

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What people regret most at death and why you should care now

Many people believe that repenting while one is still young and healthy is meaningless because they think they can always repent later. This is the suggestion of the devil, who wants the soul to get used to more and more sins and deceive themselves with repentance later.

Sin seems fun, but in reality, it isn’t:

At first glance, a life of debauchery and sin seems like a wonderful thing, one to be proud of; however, in reality, sin is the worst sickness a person can have. Sin not only kills the soul but creates a deep scar that even confession cannot take away.

The scars:

Let us assume the sinner is genuinely sorry for his sins and receives pardon for the guilt of these sins; he indeed won’t be condemned to hell for them anymore. However, some things linger, e.g., temporal punishment due to that sin, the regret, and self-criticism that this sin breeds which can encourage or cripple the soul, evil habit, and susceptibility towards this sin. So, what exactly is fun about this? There can be nothing fun in waging war against Almighty God and his merciful Heart, nor can there be anything fun in putting our eternal salvation at risk for one fleeting moment of pleasure.

So, fight:

Working hard to avoid sin while one is alive is a task that everyone is obliged to undertake. It isn’t easy, but it is very beneficial to the soul. Habitual sins might be challenging to shake off, but what matters here is that one uses every fiber of their being to fight both sins and those situations that expose the soul to the risk of committing them.

Some of those regrets:

Where one has not done everything they can to avoid living a sinful life, at death, the devil uses those same “enjoyments” to cripple and overload his conscience by blowing the sins out of proportions and belittling the mercy of God. That final struggle is so vital that it is crucial to do everything now to prepare for them.

  • Giving bad examples and scandalizing others.
  •  Not paying attention to those around us who are suffering
  • Taking credit for everything good in my life and blaming others for the bad.
  • Becoming a barrier to others in achieving their lives’ goals
  • Spending money and time on useless things.
  • Refusing to forgive or taking too long to.
  • Taking advantage of others, especially those who trusted me and those who are vulnerable. Worse still, those who are entrusted to my care.
  • Indulging so much in self-deception even when the truth was clear to me.
  • Complaining too much, needlessly.
  • For not praying as much as I am supposed to, especially failing to give thanks.
  • For using the gifts God has given me to contribute to destroying myself, others, or the world. Or for letting those gifts go unused in helping those around me and myself.
  • An unbridled tongue: for vulgarity, insults, etc.
  • Participating in mocking God, his Church, or his laws.
  • Making unfulfiled promises, especially those I never intended to meet.
  • Wasting many opportunities to show love and care.
  • Ignoring Jesus, especially in the Blessed Sacrament.
  • Hurting those around me needlessly.
  • Not valuing the love of Jesus and devotion to the Blessed Mother.
  • Finally, for not taking care of my soul as I should and for postponing repentance and confession.

What people regret most at death and why you should care now

Conclusion:

Forming a habit of caring, of telling yourself the truth now, will help at death a lot. Nothing will be exaggerated to the point of uneasiness or dangerous self-pity. You will have the peace of a life lived well or at least the ease that comes from knowing you honestly DID YOUR BEST. So, what I always preach isn’t just doing the right thing but honestly doing one’s best to follow God’s precepts, the Church’s, and a person’s conscience.

Let us pray for a happy death:

Most holy Virgin Immaculate, my Mother Mary, I love you, O most lovable Lady, and because of my love for you, I promise to serve you always and to do all in my power to win others to love you also. In your hands, I place all my hopes; I entrust the salvation of my soul to your care. Accept me as your servant, O Mother of Mercy; receive me under your mantle. And since you have such power with God, deliver me from all temptations, or rather, obtain for me the strength to triumph over them until death. Of you, I ask the grace of perfect love for Jesus Christ. Through your help, I hope to die a happy death. O my Mother, I beg you, by the love you bear my God, to help me at all times, but especially at the last moment of my life. Do not leave me, I beseech you, until you see me safe in Heaven, blessing you and singing your mercies for all eternity, Amen. So I hope, so may it be.

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You could be saying the Rosary wrong: an explanation and beautiful story

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You could be saying the Rosary wrong: an explanation and beautiful story

One of the reasons many Protestants don’t like the Rosary is it is Mary-centric. Another reason is, the repetition, they believe it is against the word of Christ to not speak in many words.

However, there’s no reason to worry about the former since even the Apostles appealed to Mary for help severally as recorded in the Bible and recounted by Saints. We also know Mary isn’t dead since “the Lord is God of the living and not of the dead”  (Mark 12:27). So if the Saints asked for her help, and she is alive before God, it is perfectly okay to ask for help since we are united with her in a most wonderful way. The latter isn’t an issue too because asking God for help repeatedly isn’t considered “repetition”. The Rosary is a deeply meditative prayer which helps enter into the mysteries of Faith and share in the life of God.

There is a problem, however: Many people aren’t as present as should while praying the Rosary. They do not reflect enough on these mysteries or pray attentively. Here’s a snippet from St Louis de Montfort’s “The Secret of the Rosary“:

Here is his explanation plus a story:

“WHEN YOU have asked the Holy Spirit to help you pray well, put yourself for a moment in the presence of God and offer up the decades in the way that I am going to show you later. [See Chapter 50.]

Before beginning a decade, pause for a moment or two—-depending upon how much time you have—-and contemplate the mystery that you are about to honour in that decade. Always be sure to ask of Almighty God, by this mystery and through the intercession of the Blessed Mother, one of the virtues that shine forth most in this mystery or one of which you stand in particular need.

Take great care to avoid the two pitfalls that most people fall into during the Rosary. The first is the danger of not asking for any graces at all so that if some people were asked their Rosary intention they would not know what to say. So, whenever you say your Rosary, be sure to ask for some special grace. Ask God’s help in cultivating one of the great Christian virtues or in overcoming one of your sins.

The second big fault a lot of people make when saying the Holy Rosary is to have no intention other than that of getting it over as quickly as possible! This is because so many of us look upon the Rosary as a burden which is always heavier when we have not said it especially if it is weighing on our conscience because we have promised to say it regularly or have been told to say it as a penance more or less against our will.

It is really pathetic to see how most people say the Holy Rosary they say it astonishingly fast and mumble so that the words are not properly pronounced at all. We could not possibly expect anyone, even the most unimportant person, to think that a slipshod address of this kind was a compliment and yet we expect Jesus and Mary to be pleased with it! Small wonder then that the most sacred prayers of our holy religion seem to bear no fruit, and that, after saying thousands of Rosaries, we are still no better than we were before! Dear Confraternity members, I beg of you to temper the speed which comes all too easily to you and pause briefly several times as you say the Our Father and Hail Mary.

I have placed a cross at each pause, as you will see:

Our Father Who art in Heaven, + hallowed be Thy name, + Thy kingdom come, + Thy will be done  + on earth as it is in Heaven.  + Give us this day CROSS our daily bread CROSS and forgive us our trespasses  + as we forgive those who trespass against us, CROSS and lead us not into temptation CROSS but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, + the Lord is with Thee, + blessed art thou among women + and blessed is the Fruit of Thy womb, Jesus. +

Holy Mary, Mother of God, + pray for us sinners, now + and at the hour of our death. Amen.

At first, you may find it difficult to make these pauses because of your bad habit of saying prayers in a hurry; but a decade that you say recollectedIy in this way will be worth more than thousands of Rosaries said all in a rush without any pauses or reflection.

The Story:

Blessed Alan de la Roche and other writers (including Saint Robert Bellarmine) tell the story of how a good confessor advised three of his penitents, who happened to be sisters, to say the Rosary every day without fail for a whole year. This was so that they might make beautiful robes of glory for Our Lady out of their Rosaries. This was a secret that the priest had received from Heaven.

So the three sisters said the Rosary faithfully for a year and on the Feast of the Purification, the Blessed Virgin appeared to them at night when they had retired. Saint Catherine and Saint Agnes were with her and she was wearing beautiful robes that shone and all over them “Hail Mary, full of grace” was blazoned in letters of gold. The Blessed Mother came to the eldest sister and said “I salute you, my daughter because you have saluted me so often and beautifully. I want to thank you for the beautiful robes that you have made me.” The two virgin Saints who were with Our Lady thanked her too and then all three of them vanished.

An hour later Our Lady and the same two Saints appeared, to them again, but this time she was wearing green which had no gold lettering and did not gleam. She went up to the second sister and thanked her for the robes she had made Her by saying her Rosary. Since this sister had seen Our Lady appear to the eldest much more magnificently dressed she asked Her the reason for the change. The Blessed Mother answered: “Your sister made Me more beautiful clothes because she has been saying her Rosary better than you.”

About an hour after this she appeared to the youngest of the sisters wearing tattered and dirty rags. “My daughter,” she said “I want to thank you for these clothes that you have made Me. The young girl was covered with shame and she called out: “Oh, my Queen, how could I have dressed you so badly! I beg you to forgive me. Please grant me a little more time to make you beautiful robes by saying my Rosary better .” Our Lady and the two Saints vanished, leaving the girl heartbroken. She told her confessor everything that had happened and he urged her to say her Rosary for another year and to say it more devoutly than ever.

At the end of this second year on the very same day of the Purification, Our Lady, clothed in a magnificent robe and attended by Saint Catherine and Saint Agnes, wearing crowns, appeared to them again in the evening. She said to them: “My daughters, I have come to tell you that you have earned Heaven at last and you will all have the great joy of going there tomorrow.” The three of them cried:

“Our hearts are all ready, dearest Queen; our hearts are all ready.”

Then the vision faded. That same night they became ill and so sent for their confessor who brought them the Last Sacraments and they thanked him for the holy practice that he had taught them. After Compline, Our Lady appeared with a multitude of virgins and had the three sisters clothed in white gowns. While Angels were singing “Come, spouses of Jesus Christ, receive the crowns which have been prepared for you for all eternity,” they departed from this life.

Get this book, it really helped me years ago when i was trying to learn to pray the Rosary well.

You could be saying the Rosary wrong: an explanation and beautiful story

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Is living with a significant other still sinful even without sex?

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Is living with a significant other still sinful even without sex?

Full Question:

Is living together with a significant other still considered cohabitation if there is no sex involved? Are the two different?

Answer:

I believe you mean two unmarried people living together without having sexual relations with each other. Each of these people is unmarried even to other people; this is the assumption here. If the conditions are different, like one of them is married to someone else, then the gravity of the sin would be more severe. For the sake of this answer, let us stick to the previous assumption.

Cohabitation between two unmarried partners is an occasion of not one but two sins. The first is fornication which is sexual relations between two unmarried people. If there are no sexual relations between the two, there is still the exposure to temptation; we are supposed to avoid near occasions of sin. If one is serious about their spiritual life, one should not expose themselves to this kind of temptation.

The second sin is scandal which the Catechism of the Catholic Church defines thus:

Scandal is an attitude or behavior which leads another to do evil. The person who gives scandal becomes his neighbor’s tempter. He damages virtue and integrity; he may even draw his brother into spiritual death. Scandal is a grave offense if, by deed or omission, another is deliberately led into a grave offense

CCC 2284

When two people live together, they make other people assume this is an acceptable lifestyle—giving other people scandal and leading them to a potentially sinful life. So without even engaging in sex, this couple exposes other people to sin as well as themselves. So either way, living together is a bad idea and is definitely sinful even without overt sexual activities.

Think about it this way: is a professional juggler who has spent about three decades taking risks, throwing knives and fires up, and catching them guilty for endangering his kid in an act? I mean, he is a professional and has never missed. Let us even assume he can never make a mistake. Wouldn’t you agree (as do civil law) that endangering his child is in itself a crime? 

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Are Canonizations Infallible?

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Are Canonizations Infallible?

Question:

If the Church declares someone a saint, how can we know with absolute certainty that they are in heaven?

Answer:

The Church does not officially say that canonization is infallible, but theologians have always believed it is. The process of severe scrutiny sometimes takes years. And most importantly, asking God for a sure sign of blessedness (miracles) to show the Church the power of the Saint with God. Also, the nature of the declaration is another pointer since the Pope is officially decreeing that a specific person is in heaven. A decree to be believed and held by all Christians. It might be considered to be infallible.

As St. Thomas Aquinas noted:

Since the honor we pay the saints is in a certain sense a profession of faith, i.e., a belief in the glory of the saints, we must piously believe that in this matter also the judgment of the Church is not liable to error (Quodlib. IX, a. 16).

From New Advent:

These words of St. Thomas, as is evident from the authorities just cited, all favouring a positive infallibility, have been interpreted by his school in favour of papal infallibility in the matter of canonization, and this interpretation is supported by several other passages in the same Quodlibet. This infallibility, however according to the holy doctor, is only a point of pious belief. 

Theologians generally agree as to the fact of papal infallibility in this matter of canonization, but disagree as to the quality of certitude due to a papal decree in such matter. In the opinion of some it is of faith (Arriaga, De fide, disp. 9, p. 5, no 27); others hold that to refuse assent to such a judgment of the Holy See would be both impious and rash, as Francisco Suárez (De fide, disp. 5 p. 8, no 8); many more (and this is the general view) hold such a pronouncement to be theologically certain, not being of Divine Faith as its purport has not been immediately revealed, nor of ecclesiastical Faith as having thus far not been defined by the Church.

Catholic Encyclopaedia

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Why are there “death sculptures” and skulls in Catholic Churches?

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Why are there “death sculptures” and skulls in Catholic Churches?

I have noticed quite a number of artworks depicting death in some Catholic Churches. Isn’t this a bad thing?

Answer:

As Christians, we acknowledge several things about death:

Death is Universal:

Death is part of life, at least now it is. It was never part of the plan of God, but since the Fall of Man, death has become the doorway through which everyone passes to the next life. There are two kinds of death: physical death, a natural part of life, and spiritual death, which is eternal damnation. We are discussing physical death since this is what those sculptures represent. 

St Augustine, speaking on the universality of death, says:

For no sooner do we begin to live in this dying body than we begin to move ceaselessly towards death. For in the whole course of this life (if life we must call it), its mutability tends towards death. Certainly, there is no one who is not nearer it this year than last year, and tomorrow than today, and today than yesterday, and a short while hence than now, and now than a short while ago. For whatever time we live is deducted from our whole term of life, and that which remains is daily becoming less and less; so that our whole life is nothing but a race towards death, in which no one is allowed to stand still for a little space or to go somewhat more slowly, but all are driven forwards with an impartial movement, and with equal rapidity.

Death isn’t scary, not anymore:

Do you know what shocked many onlookers during the persecution of Christians in the Early Church? The fearlessness in the eyes of these Saints at the face of death, and something of glee even. Some martyrs have been said to sing while burning, others to even make special outfits for the “occasion” like St. Margaret Clitherow. Yet others have been known to crack jokes on their way to death like St John Fisher. Why? Because:

“Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?” (1 Corinthians 15:55)

Death is no longer scary; death has lost its pain because to believers, death has become a “sister,” a “helper,” a “deliverer.” St John of the Cross in his poem, says:

Break the web of this sweet encounter.

Pleading with God to set the soul free to join God in heaven. 

Also, St Francis referring to death as “Sister” wrote:

All praise be yours, my Lord, through Sister Death, From whose embrace no mortal can escape. Woe to those who die in mortal sin!Happy those she finds doing your will! The second death can do them no harm. Praise and bless my Lord, and give him thanks. And serve him with great humility.

All thanks to Jesus, who conquered death and removed the power it had over believers because no matter how painful it is, the believer’s spirit is in the hands of God. Christ guarantees resurrection to the believer; he promises he will walk with us in life and the journey of death.

Death isn’t a bad thing, not anymore:

Also, following what we already said, death isn’t a bad thing since it has become the door to heaven. The death of Jesus conquered evil in all its forms and shades. What this means is, suffering can now be a source of grace to people of faith. That sicknesses, pains, and many other natural evils have been made a source of God’s grace to those who have faith. Death, the chief of them all is become, in a sense, the very gate of heaven to the believer.

When Jesus was killed, the world committed unspeakable evil because it killed an innocent man, the Son of God. But more because we took Goodness personified and killed him. We murdered our Creator. What else could be more evil than that? However, God specializing in bringing out the good from evil, brought out the greatest good from this most horrible act.

Conclusion:

When you visit any Church with death depictions, let them remind you of the things stated above, but most of all, let them remind you that you will die someday. Like St Ambrose, who was said to have kept a skull on his desk to help him remember, those are there to do the same for you.

Death has been conquered, and Christ has given the merits of his passion to the Church. Take advantage of these by receiving the Sacraments frequently, especially Penance and the Eucharist.

Why are there “death sculptures” and skulls in Catholic Churches?

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May a woman donate her eggs?

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May a woman donate her eggs?

Answer:

You mean a woman giving her egg cells/ova for the purpose of reproduction and not providing food to someone hungry. The Church teaches that this practice is against natural law and is therefore immoral.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church states:

Techniques that entail the dissociation of husband and wife, by the intrusion of a person other than the couple (donation of sperm or ovum, surrogate uterus), are gravely immoral. These techniques (heterologous artificial insemination and fertilization) infringe the child’s right to be born of a father and mother known to him and bound to each other by marriage. They betray the spouses’ “right to become a father and a mother only through each other” (CCC 2376).

2377 Techniques involving only the married couple (homologous artificial insemination and fertilization) are perhaps less reprehensible, yet remain morally unacceptable. They dissociate the sexual act from the procreative act.

The act which brings the child into existence is no longer an act by which two persons give themselves to one another, but one that “entrusts the life and identity of the embryo into the power of doctors and biologists and establishes the domination of technology over the origin and destiny of the human person.

Such a relationship of domination is in itself contrary to the dignity and equality that must be common to parents and children.” “Under the moral aspect procreation is deprived of its proper perfection when it is not willed as the fruit of the conjugal act, that is to say, of the specific act of the spouses’ union . . . . Only respect for the link between the meanings of the conjugal act and respect for the unity of the human being make possible procreation in conformity with the dignity of the person.”

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May a woman donate her eggs?

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